What are the real benefits of sex therapy and relationship counseling for a man? This is a candid look at why men should consider sex therapy from relationship therapists.
Even Guys Have Emotional, Physical, or Sexual Problems from Time to Time
…and the more quickly you recognize the issues, the more quickly and efficiently you can fix them and get more out of your life and relationships. Some problems are complex, and others are simple problems that cause more complex problems than they should. A Men’s therapist helps you to see the problems objectively, and to see a clear solution to the problems. From here, men can work on their problems independently, with help from the therapist. This allows a man to not only deal with mental, emotional, physical and sexual problems, but also allows builds confidence and helps men to not let issues hold them back.
Issues That Men’s Therapy Can Help
Men’s therapy offers a myriad of benefits that are not just limited to resolving the issues below, but can be used to treat and overcome a number of mental blocks and issues.
Sexual Performance Issues – Men’s Sex Therapy is NOT just about treating erectile dysfunction and performance issues, but these problems are so common that it is impossible to talk about sex therapy without these components. Men’s Sex Therapy is more about dealing with the inner emotional issues that can contribute to performance issues, fostering healthy sexual and intimacy relationships and preventing sexual issues from arising.
Learning to Connect with Your Partner – Sex is not something that everyone “knows how to do perfectly” or naturally has a talent for — even though it is a natural behavior and some are more naturally comfortable with their sexuality than others. We learn and get better at sex with the openness and help from our partners.
Society and mainstream culture has presented an “image” of what sexuality is, and it drives this image into the heads of young men and women from an early age. However, this presented “narrative” of what sexuality-is is highly distorted. Men especially have been presented with a distorted view on sex and intimacy, so it is expected that modern men will come to find themselves confused or may misinterpret sexual situations. Men’s Sex Therapists help to sort sexual fact from fiction and help men to understand the truth about female and male sexuality (not the hyper-eroticized and over-fantasized view presented).
Understanding Sex Helps You Blow Your Partner’s Mind – we all want to satisfy our partners, but being an over-achiever in bed can be a healthy boost to any relationship. When you understand what is happening during sex, and you and your partner are connecting on deeper levels, your sexual performance is heightened.
If you want to boost your sexual performance, you start with opening up to a men’s sex therapist — either in private or as a couple — and begin to discover the mysteries of intimacy.
Sex is a Big Part of a Man’s Psyche and Life – this is nothing to be ashamed of; rather sex needs to find its place in the life of a man. When a man is sexually confident and satisfied, many other problems (financially, mentally, spiritually) can be brought into perspective, fixed, or avoided. With sex such a big part of a man’s life, he better have his sex life together if he is going to keep the rest of his life together.
Exorcise the Sexual Negativities from Your Life – There is healthy sex and there is unhealthy sex. Like Yin and Yang, sex has aspects of negativity and positivity that need to be kept in balance. “Everything in moderation” – Even Sex! Pornography and unhealthy sexual obsessions quickly overtake a person and can sour a sexual partnership.
Many Men are Victims of Emotional and Sexual Trauma – past experiences form who we are and how we behave in the present. Men are much more emotional than popular culture would have us believe. Men get hurt emotionally often, even if they don’t show it. These emotional scars build who the man is and how they react to other emotional situations. Sex is an intense emotional situation – and many of a man’s behaviors during sex are the direct result of past experiences (Whether they realize it or not).
Healing trauma is much like re-wiring the brain. Trauma and past traumatic experiences are like a live wire and any wrong move in an emotional or sexual situation can immediately connect back to past pain and trauma. Dealing with the past and healing trauma secures the wires so you can operate safely in sexual/emotional situations again.
Healing from a Cheating Partner or Rebuilding from a Divorce/Breakup – the soul-crushing feeling of a betrayal by a partner is one of the most common forms of sexual and emotional trauma in men and women. Cheating and infidelity can cause emotional and mental problems that linger for a lifetime if untreated. Rebuilding from a divorce or a breakup and infidelity means rebuilding yourself from the ground up. Finding your own confidence and what makes you happy in life is part of the process of healing. Men’s Infidelity and Betrayal Counseling is the best places to start for men that have issues stemming from betrayal by a past partner.
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